Sex

How do you start sex in arrange marriage?

Sex

Sex is an intimate action between two bodies, basically between any living organism. Sex is the origin of creation. Being an instinct, basic instinct, and animal instinct, sex is such a free act to involve in and figure it out.

Humans are the only soul that got brains that have emotions that make sex become a more intimate and personal thing. Most human beings feel shy over sexual activity. Forget about sex, they can't even see nude images.

In the long run of civilization, human beings have forgotten that they once used to be clothless and shelterless. A cloth over the body is the coverage of the body being whereas shelter has become the coverage to the bodies put together.

Marriage is one such act to put two human bodies of different gender together and make a family, which is how humans have become social animals.

Humans can do all the animal activities but only they look after their privacy. Whatever they do to come closer to animal beings, they would like to build a wall from outside society.

As we stated earlier that the sex is the origin of creation, a coupled activated in sexual activity will make up their by-product called human child, one time or another time of their sexual reproductive act.

So, what is sex technically?

Sex is the pleasure obtained through genitals in a living body. Sex is heaven on earth. Sex is the creation of life. Sex is the only capability to reproduce. Sex could be performed either to make out a baby or simply to relax oneself. Sex is the ultimate closeness between two living entities. 

Sexual urge is as simple as hunger. One may control sexual urges as fasting but ultimately one needs to fully stop the sexual intention by engaging in sexual performance. Otherwise, the urge of the body to sexual activity stores up a certain part of the mind and does not leave the person alone.

Sex is a hormonal excitement observed in the body expelled as an intense urge to involve in sexual intercourse. The hormones motivating sex generally occur at a young age, from teenage to mid-thirties. Anybody feels comfort and interest in sex at a young age.

To do a sexual activity, there should be prerequisite energy stored in the body to happily engage in a sexual embodiment.

Who can engage in sex?

Sex is an activity supposedly or legally allowed between a man and woman who got married. However, the source of love or infatuation upon one another or the freedom provided in the present world has led to sex happening between strangers, lovers, and living relationship people.

Sex between the married couple would most probably aim to make a child whereas sex between any different couple is optimized to having just pleasure or fun or entertainment or love together.

How to approach sex in an arranged marriage?

Arranged marriage is one typical social norm where two families of a community would bring a young man and woman together and pull off a new family journey. In this reform, a man brought to a woman is a stranger and on the act of marriage, they should behave one another.

After all, the wife should be half-being to the husband. The strange individual journeys are pull-stopped with a unit called marriage.

Now, sex is the source to put a couple together. Sex is the underlined objective of marriage. Sex is the source of reproducing to make up a family.

However, a newly married couple should see a lot of differences through one's own individual eye and perspective.

To cross all the differences they have in their heart and mind and put souls together is one typical task. Sex is not just a physical act but a whole new psychological act between a couple become on arranged marriage.

A man cannot simply advance his leg on his wife's legs and get her waist to his and make out sexual intercourse. There would be a lot of dilemmas and temperatures.

The man in the couple may like sex so much but his wife may not or otherwise which would pose a lot of attitude and behavior that mist angle the sexual activity. That's the same reason the same people who arranged marriage have put the concept of honeymoon.

Honeymoon phase

The starting period of the couple, either by marriage or love or living relationship, is highly rejoiced, both physically and mentally, according to the state of foolishly attracted to each other to an extent of could not leave each other nor live without each other is called honeymoon phase in one life. During the phase, they feel heaven in the bathroom, too. That close, one becomes another. During the same phase, the get-together couple becomes half-being to one another.

A honeymoon is an intimacy that has a feeling or atmosphere of closeness and openness towards the partner, not necessarily involving sexuality. The sexuality can also be shared but on longer days of staying together if the persons engaging in the marital affair are introverted. Most extroverts indulge in sexual activity right off the first day. Few couples shy off to nudity for the greater Intimacy. Others damage themselves, right on the day.

Honeymoon is automatically generated by the way one wants during the coupling time. They were freshly married and sent onto the world only to experience the new phase in life with extraordinary ease and attention followed by a strange passion for somebody closely attached.

Take Away 

If the understanding and wavelength of attitude and behavior are settled and compounded in a newly arranged married couple, there is no question of how to start sex. It all goes natural and love is added.